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Hollie Brader wonders if ‘this will not break us’ is the right way to respond to the Manchester attack

Morrissey managed to articulate a feeling that I’ve often struggled to express (Suzanne Moore, G2, 25 May). I’ve always found it deeply troubling when politicians use rhetoric following a horrifying attack such as “this will not break us”. In my mind, the phrase “not breaking” is associated with remaining the same, sticking to the same principles and regime. But, is this really what we should be doing? Refusing to address the underlying causes of such atrocities?

Little wonder that the mental health of this country is in such dire straits, with millions of people grappling with anxiety and depression. If we’re forever told that we mustn’t be broken, even when we read in the news about children screaming in terror, how can we not be broken? I certainly am. My heart is broken for the families of those needlessly killed in Manchester and my spirit feels defeated when I hear about children fleeing for their lives in Syria. If we’re constantly told that we should not be broken, if we suppress these feelings of fear and despair, then what good can possibly come of that? If I had lost someone in the Manchester attack, I would be angry that politicians could believe that I’m capable of not breaking, when my whole world had been shattered.

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Widow of academic killed in London denied legal aid for inquest

Nadja Ensink-Teich says police and CPS have questions to answer over husband’s death at hands of a paranoid schizophrenic

The widow of a man stabbed to death in a random attack outside his London home has been denied legal aid to be represented at his inquest, which is set to explore the actions of police, prosecutors and mental health professionals leading up to his death.

Jeroen Ensink, 41, was killed in December 2015 by student Femi Nandap, 23, who had paranoid schizophrenia, and just days earlier had knife and assault charges against him dropped.

Related: ‘My life stopped’: widow of academic killed in random attack speaks of loss

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